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Every living thing has DNA — the invisible code that determines its identity, function, and purpose. It’s what makes an eagle soar, a rose bloom, and your heart beat. The same is true for the Church. God has written something deep into the heart of every believer and every local body of Christ — a spiritual DNA that defines who we are, what we believe, and how we live. At Passion Church, we believe God has called us to rediscover and live out our DNA — to be a people who love deeply, live boldly, and shine brightly in our world. We find this calling in Matthew 28:18–20 , where Jesus gives His followers the mission that still defines His Church today: “Then Jesus came to them and said, ‘All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age." That’s our why. It’s our spiritual DNA — to make disciples, love people, and bring the hope of Jesus to our city and beyond. That’s why we’re launching a brand-new series called Passion DNA: Who We Are and Why We Exist, a six-week journey designed to help us all understand the heartbeat of Passion Church — our foundation, our mission, our culture, and our calling. Our Foundation: It All Starts With Jesus Everything begins and stands on Jesus. Ephesians 2:4–5 reminds us, “Because of His great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in sin—it is by grace you have been saved.” That’s our starting point and our ending point. We aren’t here to promote a brand, a personality, or a program — we’re here to lift up the name of Jesus. The Gospel is the heartbeat of Passion Church. We were dead, but Jesus made us alive. We didn’t earn it; grace gave it. And now we exist to help others experience that same transforming grace. When Jesus is the foundation, everything else finds its place. Our Identity: Passionate About God and People If our foundation is Jesus, then our identity is love. When Jesus was asked to summarize all of Scripture, He said: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind… and love your neighbor as yourself.” (Matthew 22:37–39) That’s who we are. Passion Church exists to love God fully and love people deeply. And love isn’t just a feeling — it’s an action. That’s why we’re not just talking about love; we’re showing it. On Week 2 of this series, instead of having a normal service, we’re having Serve Sunday — a morning of worship, prayer, and community outreach. We’ll gather for breakfast, share a short devotion, and then go into our city to mow lawns, clean homes, deliver meals, and care for our neighbors. Because love that doesn’t move isn’t love at all. Every act of service is an act of worship. This is what we mean when we say: “At Passion Church, service isn’t what we do — it’s who we are.” Our Mission: Reaching People Far From God Through Authentic Relationships Jesus said in Luke 19:10, “The Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.” That’s His mission — and now it’s ours. We exist to reach people far from God through authentic relationships. Jesus didn’t shout His love from a distance — He walked into people’s lives, sat at their tables, listened to their stories, and invited them into His grace. In a world where everyone’s connected online but isolated in real life, people are desperate for genuine connection. That’s where the Church shines. We reach people not by arguing louder, but by loving better. We build bridges, not walls. We go because Jesus came. Every believer has a “one” — someone God has placed in your path who needs to experience His love through your relationship. Who’s your one? Who could encounter Jesus because you were willing to be real, compassionate, and present? Our Culture: The Way We Live Culture eats strategy for breakfast. What we believe is vital, but what we live is what changes the world. At Passion Church, our culture is simple: we want to look like Jesus. To do that, we’ve identified five defining values — our cultural DNA markers: Passionate – We worship and serve with fire because our Savior is worthy. “Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.” – Romans 12:11 Dedicated – We stay committed when it’s not convenient. “They devoted themselves…” – Acts 2:42 Compassionate – We see people through Jesus’ eyes. “When He saw the crowds, He had compassion on them.” – Matthew 9:36 Authentic – We lead with honesty and humility. “We have renounced secret and shameful ways.” – 2 Corinthians 4:2 Generous – We live open-handed because God gave first. “God loves a cheerful giver.” – 2 Corinthians 9:7 This is what it means to be part of the Passion Church family. We’re not perfect, but we’re real. We’re not driven by ego, but by mission. We’re a people who live the Gospel every day, not just on Sundays. Our Foundation of Truth: Built on the Word In a world of shifting opinions, one thing remains unshakable: God’s Word. 2 Timothy 3:16–17 tells us, “All Scripture is God-breathed and useful for teaching, correcting, and training in righteousness…” The Bible is not a suggestion book — it’s the living voice of God to His people. It’s our authority, our guide, and our source of hope. When we stand on the Word, we don’t crumble under pressure. When we live by the Word, we’re not swayed by the latest trend or headline. Truth doesn’t change with culture; it transcends it. At Passion Church, we believe the Bible defines our beliefs, directs our actions, and anchors our DNA in eternal truth. Our Response: Built to Last In Matthew 7:24–27, Jesus told the story of two builders: one built on rock, the other on sand. Both faced storms, but only one stood firm. The difference wasn’t in their talent or tools — it was in their foundation. Jesus said, “Everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.” We want to be that kind of people. The kind who don’t just hear truth but live it. The kind who don’t just attend church but build it. We’re building something that lasts — lives, families, and a church that stands strong through every season. This Is Our DNA Over these six weeks, we’ll rediscover who we are and why we exist. We’ll celebrate our foundation in Jesus, our identity of love, our mission to reach people through authentic relationships, our Christ-shaped culture, our confidence in Scripture, and our call to live it all out daily. Because Passion Church isn’t a building or a brand — it’s a people. People who believe that God’s not done with our city. People who believe the local church is still the hope of the world. People who believe Jesus changes everything. Your Invitation We want you to be part of this journey. Whether you’ve been part of Passion Church for years or you’ve never set foot in our doors, this is your moment to see what God is doing here. Join us for the Passion DNA Series, and discover what it means to belong to a church built on Jesus, rooted in truth, and fueled by love. Come learn your part in the story God is writing through Passion Church. Come rediscover your calling. Come experience your spiritual DNA come alive. “For no one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ.” – 1 Corinthians 3:11 This is who we are. This is why we exist. This is Passion DNA. See you soon! Pastor Josh

Let's be honest: this question shouldn't have to be asked, but here we are. And if you're asking it, you're already being wise. Whether you're new to Kernersville, new to faith, or just looking for a church home where you can actually feel... well, safe, this conversation matters more than ever. I've been pastoring for over a decade now, and I've seen both sides of this coin. I've watched churches get security spectacularly wrong, and I've seen what it looks like when a church creates genuine safety, not just the kind that keeps bad guys out, but the kind that lets hurting people in. So let's talk about what real church safety looks like and what you should be looking for when you're church shopping in our little corner of North Carolina. Physical Safety: More Than Just Locks and Cameras Here's what I wish someone had told me when I started in ministry: church security isn't about creating a fortress, it's about creating a haven. There's a big difference. A truly secure church should have done its homework. They should have conducted a security risk assessment, covering everything from their building layout to how they handle money on Sundays. So, here is what to look for: Are there greeters who clearly know what they're doing beyond just saying hello? Do they have adequate lighting in the parking lot? (Trust me, this matters more than you think.) Are doors managed well, meaning they know which ones should be locked and which ones shouldn't? Is there a communication system in place for emergencies? The parking lot is actually a big deal. I know it sounds weird, but criminals know that during church services, cars are left unattended for an hour or more at predictable times. A good church pays attention to this stuff. Some churches hire professional security services. Others train volunteers with law enforcement or military backgrounds. Both can work great; what matters is that someone's actually thinking about it. Emotional and Spiritual Safety: The Harder Conversation Okay, here's where it gets real. Physical safety is the easier part. Emotional safety? That's where churches often struggle, and honestly, it's where the real damage happens. I remember talking to a woman who told me, "Josh, I've been hurt by churches before. How do I know this place is different?" That question broke my heart and made me realize we needed to do better at showing, not just saying, that we're a safe place for broken people. Red flags to watch for: Leadership that never admits mistakes or shows vulnerability Preaching that sounds like "we're right, everyone else is wrong" all the time An absence of support ministries for real-life struggles Green flags to look for: Pastors who talk about their own failures and growth Support groups for grief, divorce, addiction, or other life challenges Leadership that includes diverse voices and perspectives Teaching that's more about "here's what Scripture says" and less about "here's why we're better than them" Before you ever step foot in a church building, there is an easy and effective way to learn more about them. Spend some time on its website. Listen to a few sermons online. Do they sound like people you'd want to have coffee with? Do they talk about helping hurting people, or do they mostly talk about how awesome their church is? Is the Bible a consistent focus during teaching? Are the messages relatable? Leadership Structure: Character Over Charisma This might be the most important thing I tell people: don't choose a church based on how polished the pastor's preaching is. I know a pastor who can make the phone book sound inspiring, but his church is an emotional disaster zone because he's never learned to say "I was wrong." Look for leaders who demonstrate the "fruit of the Spirit": love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). These aren't optional character traits for church leaders; they're non-negotiables. Pay attention to how disagreements are handled. Every church has them; what matters is whether they're handled with grace or with pride. A healthy church can have people who disagree about secondary issues while still loving each other well. Child Protection: Non-Negotiable Territory If you have kids, this should be one of your first questions. And even if you don't have kids, how a church protects children tells you everything about their values. Churches should have clear policies about background checks, two-adult rules in children's areas, and transparent procedures for reporting concerns. If they get defensive about these questions or act like asking is somehow distrustful, that is a red flag. At Passion Church, we're actually grateful when parents ask these questions because it shows they're engaged and protective. That's exactly what we want. Our kids' ministry operates with full transparency because children's safety isn't negotiable. The Practical Stuff: How to Actually Evaluate Here's my advice when looking at a church to attend from this perspective: Start online. Spend 30 minutes on their website. What do they emphasize? What do they barely mention? Do they sound like people you'd want to know? Listen to sermons. Most churches post them online now. Listen to 2-3 recent messages. How does the pastor handle Scripture? How does he talk about people who disagree with him? Does he sound humble or arrogant? Visit slowly. Don't feel pressured to jump in with both feet. Visit a few times, attend different types of gatherings, talk to regular people (not just the staff). Ask good questions: What's your church's approach to people who are struggling? How do you handle disagreements within the leadership? What support do you offer for people going through difficult seasons? Can you tell me about your security procedures? What Safety Looks Like at Passion Church I'm obviously biased, but I think we've learned some things about creating genuine safety over the years. We've got trained volunteers who help with security, & uniformed officers at every service, but they're also the same people who'll help you find the bathroom or get your kids checked in. We believe safety means creating space for people to ask hard questions, struggle with doubt, and work through real-life problems without judgment. It means having clear policies that protect everyone, especially the vulnerable. Most importantly, it means understanding that church isn't supposed to be a place for perfect people; it's supposed to be a hospital for broken people. If you're looking for perfect, you're going to be disappointed. If you're looking for an authentic, grace-filled community where you can grow and heal, well, that's what we're shooting for. Your 10-Minute Daily Challenge Here's something you can start today: spend 10 minutes each day this week researching one church in the Kernersville area. Look up their website, listen to part of a sermon, read their values or beliefs page. Don't worry about making a decision yet: just start getting familiar with what's out there. By the end of the week, you'll have a much better sense of which churches might be worth visiting in person. The goal isn't to find the perfect church (spoiler alert: it doesn't exist), but to find a place where you can be known, loved, and challenged to grow in your faith. Come Check Us Out Look, I'd love for you to visit Passion Church, but more than that, I want you to find a church home where you can thrive and grow closer to Jesus Christ. If that's us, awesome. If it's not, I genuinely hope you find what you're looking for. But if you want to see what we're about, come join us this Sunday at either 9:30am or 11:00am . We'll be the ones trying to create the kind of place we'd want our own families to attend: safe, authentic, and full of grace. We are located at 612 Edgewood Street, Kernersville NC, 27284. You're not just welcome here, you're wanted. Come as you are, questions and all. Let's figure out this faith thing together.

Local Church Events for families You Can’t Miss in Kernersville Looking for local church events near me in Kernersville? At Passion Church, we believe church is more than a Sunday service—it’s a community where people of all ages (even goofy ones) can grow, connect, and make a difference. That’s why throughout the year, we host events designed to help you build relationships and experience the love of Jesus in real ways. Weekly Gatherings You’ll Love Sunday Services (9:30 & 11:00 AM) – Two opportunities to worship with passionate music, practical teaching, Kids Church, and a youth small group Bible study during the second service. Kids Church (both services) – A fun, safe place where children journey through the entire Bible every three years , learning God’s truth from start to finish. Youth Small Group (11:00 AM) – Middle and high school students meet for Bible study and real-life discussions while adults are in service. Small Groups for Adults – Whether weekly or monthly, small groups are a great way to build relationships and grow in faith. At Passion Church, groups meet at different times to fit your schedule: Sunday afternoons or evenings Monday evenings Thursday nights Monthly or bi-monthly on Friday nights or Saturday mornings Special Events Throughout the Year Passion Church is known for creating opportunities where the whole community can gather. Some highlights include: Baptism Sundays – Every third Sunday of the month , we celebrate new life in Christ through water baptism. Family Fun Days – Food, games, and activities designed to bring people together. Holiday Services – Christmas and Easter services filled with hope, joy, and community. Church Anniversary Celebration (August 25th) – Every year we celebrate what God has done in and through Passion Church with worship, fellowship, and joyful celebration. Church Fellowship Meals – Throughout the year, we host regular gatherings for the church to share meals together, build community, and enjoy time as a church family. Community Outreach Events – Service projects, food drives, and local partnerships where we share the love of Jesus beyond our walls. A Safe and Welcoming Environment At every event, safety and hospitality are top priorities. Our robust safety team —including a uniformed police officer on-site each Sunday —helps ensure peace of mind for families. Kids check-in is secure, with unique matching name tags for every parent and child , so your family is always cared for. Come as You Are Whether it’s a Sunday morning or a special event, there’s no dress code. At Passion Church, you’ll see everything from full suits to shorts and flip flops. Pastor Josh Tufte usually preaches in jeans and a t-shirt. The goal isn’t what you wear—it’s that you come ready to encounter Jesus and build meaningful relationships. Stay Up to Date on Events Want to know what’s happening this month at Passion Church? From kids’ events to adult gatherings, there’s always something going on. Check out our Events Page for the latest updates on upcoming opportunities to connect, serve, and grow. Not Just Welcome—Wanted Here Some churches or events may say you’re welcome but don’t go out of their way to make you feel at home. At Passion Church, it’s different. You’re not just welcome here—you’re wanted here. We love growing, meeting new people, serving together, adding new small groups, and seeing new faces at every event. We genuinely love people and want anyone who is interested to join us as we follow after Jesus Christ. Join Us at Passion Church If you’re searching for local church events in Kernersville that are safe, family-friendly, and centered on God’s Word, Passion Church has a place for you. 📍 Passion Church – Kernersville, NC 🕘 Service Times – Sundays at 9:30 AM & 11:00 AM Come early, grab some coffee and snacks, and connect with people who will make you feel right at home.

Sunday Service Times in Kernersville: What to Expect at Passion Church If you’re searching for a church near me in Kernersville or looking for a welcoming, Bible-based community for your family, Passion Church is here for you. Whether you’re brand new to faith or have followed Jesus for years, we want Sundays to be the best day of your week. When We Meet We gather every Sunday at two service times designed to fit your schedule: 9:30 AM & 11:00 AM Each service lasts about 60-75 minutes and includes modern worship, practical Bible teaching, and ministry opportunities for every age group. Come Early for Coffee, Snacks, and Community We encourage you to arrive a little early! Every Sunday, we provide coffee and light snacks so you can relax, meet new people, and build friendships. At Passion Church, we believe church isn’t just about attending a service—it’s about belonging to a family. Kids Church – Growing in God’s Word We believe kids aren’t just the church of tomorrow—they’re the church of today. That’s why Kids Church happens during both services, designed for infants through 5th grade. Engaging worship and Bible lessons taught on their level A curriculum that takes kids through the entire Bible every three years, giving them a big-picture view of God’s story Fun activities in a safe, caring environment led by trained volunteers Safe and Secure Kids Check-In The safety of every child matters deeply to us. That’s why our kids’ check-in system gives each child and parent a unique matching name tag every Sunday. Parents keep their tag and must show it when picking up their child, ensuring your child is always released safely and securely. A Safe Place for Your Family Passion Church is committed to providing a safe environment for everyone who walks through our doors. Each Sunday, our robust safety team is on site, alongside a uniformed police officer, to ensure the protection of our children, families, and guests. You can worship with peace of mind knowing your loved ones are cared for. Youth Small Group – Bible Study & Discussion Middle and high school students have a special opportunity during the 11:00 AM service. While adults are in the main worship service, teens gather for a youth small group Bible study and discussion. Real conversations about faith and life Guided Bible study that helps students apply God’s Word A safe space to ask questions and build friendships What to Wear One of the questions people often ask before visiting a new church is, “What should I wear?” At Passion Church, the answer is simple: come as you are. Most of our church family dresses casually—jeans, t-shirts, or whatever makes you comfortable. You’ll also see some people dressed in full suits and others in shorts and flip flops. Our pastor, Josh Tufte, typically preaches in jeans and a t-shirt. We care far more about you than what you wear. So whether you’re dressed up or dressed down, you’ll fit right in. What to Expect on Sundays From the moment you arrive, you’ll be greeted by friendly volunteers who are ready to make you feel at home. Here’s what a typical Sunday looks like: Welcoming atmosphere – Coffee, snacks, and people eager to connect. Passionate worship – Our band leads with modern, Christ-centered music. Relevant teaching – Pastor Josh preaches directly from the Bible in a way that applies to everyday life. Community – Opportunities to connect, serve, and grow are available every week. Why People Choose Passion Church in Kernersville There are many Kernersville churches, but people choose Passion Church because: We’re committed to preaching and teaching God’s Word. We’re a community of authentic people striving to follow Jesus. We provide ministries for the whole family—kids, teens, and adults. We prioritize safety so you can focus on worship without worry. We believe the church should be filled with hope, joy, and real relationships. More Than Welcome — You’re Wanted Here Some people and places may say they want to meet you, that they wish you would come, but when you do, they don’t go out of their way to make you feel at home. At Passion Church, it’s different. You’re not only welcome here, you’re wanted here. We love growing, meeting new people, serving alongside others, adding new small groups, and seeing new faces every Sunday. More than anything, we genuinely love people and want anyone who is interested to join us as we follow after Jesus Christ. Join Us This Sunday If you’re looking for a Kernersville church that’s passionate about Jesus, welcoming to families, committed to God’s Word, and intentional about creating a safe, joyful environment, we’d love to meet you this Sunday. 📍 Passion Church – 612 Edgewood St. Kernersville, 27284 NC 🕘 Service Times – Sundays at 9:30 AM & 11:00 AM Come early, grab some coffee, connect with others, and experience a church where you truly belong.

How I Write My Sermons One of the questions I get asked most often as a pastor is: “How do you write your sermons each week?” The truth is—it’s a process filled with study, prayer, creativity, and a lot of time staring at a blank page asking the Holy Spirit to lead me. In this post, I want to pull back the curtain a little bit. Sermon preparation isn’t some mystical thing that just happens magically, and it’s definitely not something that can be accomplished in 30 minutes. It takes intentional time and focus to hear God’s voice, understand His Word, and prepare to share it faithfully. I usually aim to spend 15–18 hours a week preparing my sermons. But the reality is that ministry life is busy, and often I end up with closer to 8–10 hours of prep time. Whether it’s on the longer or shorter end, I’ve learned to trust that God can multiply the hours I give Him. Here’s a look at what my typical week of sermon prep looks like: 1. Research (1–3 Hours) The first step for me is always diving into the Word itself. I’ll spend 1–3 hours digging into the passage, studying the original language, exploring cultural and historical references, and looking at the context around the story. This deep understanding of Scripture is what allows me to be more easily led by God into the message He has for Passion Church in Kernersville. When I know the subject, timeline, or history well, I find that God can work more broadly than if I’m walking in unprepared and ignorant. Preparation gives God room to expand the message. I’ve also found that the more I prepare, the freer I become when preaching. A personal goal for me is to use my notes as a reference, not a crutch. The deeper I know the material, the less I have to rely on reading my notes word-for-word, which leaves more space for the Spirit to move in the moment. 2. Learning from Others (2–4 Hours) After that, I usually spend 2–4 hours watching other pastors preach on similar passages or themes. It’s worth noting: at Passion Church, we draw a significant amount of inspiration for sermons and series from other churches, and we recommend that others do the same—with permission and proper referencing. A great example is Life.Church’s Open Church Resource, which provides free sermon series, graphics, and a wealth of resources to support local churches. Now, I don’t recommend stealing an entire church’s series and replacing your prep with their work. Nor do I recommend following someone else’s script word-for-word, because that can remove room for the Spirit to lead. But inspiration can come from others—and God can absolutely use their work to spark something new in you. You never know how He may choose to work through the Body of Christ. 3. Prayer, Worship, and Reflection (2–4 Hours) A big part of sermon prep for me is not just information, but transformation. I have to let the message work in me before I can share it with you. That means I’ll spend 2–4 hours in prayer, worship, and reflection, asking God to show me what He wants to say to Passion Church this week. During this time, I also go back through my notes and manuscript, reading them aloud. Doing this while praying and worshiping helps calm my mind, keeps my heart centered on God, and cements everything into place before I step on stage. 4. Practice, Editing, and Refining On weeks when I have more time, I’ll split extra hours between practicing the delivery, watching more sermons for inspiration, and spending even more time in prayer and worship. I also personally find that editing my jokes takes up a significant amount of time. The more I prepare, the shorter my sermons usually run and the more “acceptable” my jokes become. Humor is a big part of preaching for me. I believe God loves me in spite of me—and that’s a reason to be joyful! Because of that, many of my sermons include intentional humor. Our relationship with God should absolutely be one of respect, love, and submission, but it should also be full of humor and joy. For me, preaching isn’t just about content—it’s about carrying the presence of God and making His Word come alive for people. 5. Using Helpful Tools Something that has surprised me in recent years is how helpful AI tools have become in this process. I use AI for research, organization, and even structuring my thoughts. It’s not a replacement for the Spirit’s leading (and it never will be), but it has helped me use my time more effectively so I can spend more of it in prayer and preparation. At the end of the day, sermon writing is not just about crafting words—it’s about hearing from God and faithfully communicating His truth. Whether I spend 18 hours or 8 hours preparing, I remind myself of Jesus’ words: “Apart from me, you can do nothing.” (John 15:5) That’s why every sermon begins and ends with dependence on Him. Looking for a Church in Kernersville? If you’ve been searching online for a church near me in Kernersville, exploring Kernersville churches, or simply wondering about Christian churches near me, we’d love to invite you to Passion Church in Kernersville. We’re a community of authentic people doing our best to follow after Jesus Christ. Every message is preached and taught from God’s Word, and every service is designed to help you take your next step with Him. Join us in person or online for one of our services—you’ll find a welcoming atmosphere, meaningful worship, and teaching rooted in Scripture. 👉 Learn more at www.passionchurchnc.com/PlanYourVisit

When the Church Gets It Wrong: Confronting Mental Health Myths For a complete list of sources, see the References section at the end of this post. Sadly, the church can sometimes mirror culture by veering toward extremes. On one end, we dismiss mental‑health struggles as a lack of faith or prayer. Ed Stetzer warns that some leaders assume mental illness is caused by spiritual deficiency, leading to spiritual abuse when sufferers are told to “just pray it away.” Steve Austin shares that in his evangelical congregation, if you couldn’t “shake off” depression, you were told you weren’t praying enough; he even hid his medication because he feared judgment. Research shows that most pastors rarely talk about mental health, and many congregations have no plans to help families affected by it. In this environment, medication and counseling can be viewed with suspicion or outright hostility. On the other side, some in our culture glorify mental illness, treating it as an identity badge. Neither extreme helps. The truth lies somewhere in between: mental‑health challenges are real and complex, but they’re not a sign of weak faith. The brain is an organ like any other; factors such as nutrition, exercise, and sleep affect its health. Competent therapy and appropriate medication can be gifts from God. Trusting God doesn’t rule out doctors or medicine. Prayer, worship, and Bible study remain invaluable , but they’re enhanced—not negated—by counseling, medication, healthy eating, and rest. As the church, we must acknowledge mental illness without glorifying it, encourage spiritual practices without dismissing medical ones, and offer compassion and support to those who struggle. Myth 1 – “Christians shouldn’t struggle with mental health.” Truth: You can love Jesus and still battle anxiety, depression, trauma, or burnout. God cares about your mind and is committed to your wholeness. Elijah’s story shatters this myth. After defeating the prophets of Baal (1 Kings 18), he ran for his life when Jezebel threatened him. Exhausted, frightened, and discouraged, he begged God to take his life (1 Kings 19:4). God didn’t rebuke him or tell him to “just pray more.” Instead, He met Elijah in his depression with compassion: an angel brought him food and water, then let him sleep. Later, God spoke not in earthquakes or fire but in a gentle whisper (1 Kings 19:11‑13), reminding Elijah that He was still with him in the quiet moments of despair. Elijah’s experience shows that even faithful heroes can face mental‑health lows—and God doesn’t shame us for it. He meets us there and restores us. Verses to remember: 1 Thessalonians 5:23‑24, Isaiah 26:3, Psalm 42:11, 1 Kings 19:4‑8. Myth 2 – “Anxiety means you don’t trust God.” Truth: Anxiety is a signal, not a sin. It invites you to bring your worries to God and trust Him to carry them. One of the godliest people I know—someone whose life radiates grace—has fought depression for years. His love for Jesus is unmistakable: he prays faithfully, studies Scripture deeply, and lives out his faith in acts of service. Yet his struggle with anxiety and depression hasn’t gone away. Rather than undermining his faith, it’s refined it. His prayers are more honest, his empathy deeper, and his dependence on God more evident. He clings to passages like Philippians 4:6‑7—casting his anxiety on Christ and receiving a peace that surpasses understanding—and 1 Peter 5:7, trusting that God cares for him. Instead of viewing depression as a sign of spiritual failure, Let’s see it as a place where Christ meets us and continues to shape our lives. His testimony is a living rebuttal to this myth, showing that genuine faith can flourish through mental‑health struggles. Verses to remember: Philippians 4:6‑7, 1 Peter 5:7, 2 Chronicles 20:3‑12, Psalm 55:22. Myth 3 – “Depression means there’s something wrong with your faith.” Truth: Depression doesn’t disqualify you from God’s love. Your feelings are valid but not permanent; God’s compassion is new every morning. This myth often springs from a well‑intentioned but ultimately misleading message: “If you just live right, pray more, and trust God, everything will be perfect.” Scripture never says that. Sometimes we sell Jesus like a quick fix or an escape from all troubles. Well‑meaning pastors or friends might promise that Jesus will make every problem disappear. But when depression, anxiety, or hardship inevitably arise, believers can feel confused, ashamed, or abandoned—thinking their faith must be deficient. The Bible never promises an absence of suffering. Jesus Himself said, “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33). Following Him doesn’t shield us from pain; it means we never face pain alone. God did not promise days without pain or laughter without sorrow; He promised strength for the day and comfort in our tears. Isaiah 41:10 reminds us that God is with us and will uphold us, while 2 Corinthians 1:3‑4 calls Him “the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort.” So the idea that “if I do everything right, my mental health will be perfect” isn’t just unrealistic—it’s unbiblical. Faith doesn’t guarantee smooth sailing; it guarantees a faithful Captain in the storm. Verses to remember: Lamentations 3:21‑23, Psalm 34:18, Romans 8:38‑39, 1 Samuel 1:10. Myth 4 – “If you worry, you lack faith.” Truth: Jesus acknowledged our tendency to worry and offered a better way: trust your heavenly Father. Worry reveals where we need to grow, not how much faith we have. We often equate faith with flawless certainty—believing without doubts or anxieties. That misunderstanding leads some to condemn any hint of worry as evidence of weak faith or divine displeasure. Yet Scripture and experience show the opposite. Emotions aren’t switches we flip on and off; they’re part of how God made us. Fr. Jim Van Vurst addresses this concern head‑on: it is not a sign of weak faith when we worry. True faith is rooted not in our shifting feelings but in a heart that chooses to trust God. Even Jesus, facing the cross, prayed in agony and fear. To pray and trust in God while feeling afraid or worried is, in fact, **a sign of great faith.** Everyone worries about something—that doesn’t make us faithless; it makes us human. The key is how we respond. Instead of letting anxiety drive us to despair, we can see worry as an invitation to lean harder on Christ. The Bible repeatedly calls us to cast our cares on Him (Psalm 55:22; 1 Peter 5:7) and to trust God with all our heart (Proverbs 3:5‑6). Jesus invites, “Come to me, all you who are struggling hard and carrying heavy loads, and I will give you rest.” Author Alicia Bruxvoort notes that when we bring our burdens to Jesus, He lightens our load. Sometimes that looks like daily rhythms of prayer, reciting Scripture to shift our focus, or simply admitting our needs. Worry doesn’t dismiss faith; it can deepen it. Verses to remember: Matthew 6:25‑34, Luke 12:22‑31, Psalm 46:10, Philippians 4:8. Myth 5 – “Your thoughts control you.” Truth: Thoughts are powerful, but they aren’t the boss of you. The Holy Spirit empowers you to renew your mind and take every thought captive. Our minds can feel like runaway trains—unwelcome thoughts appear out of nowhere, and it often feels like we’re passengers rather than drivers. This myth feeds the lie that we are powerless against our thought patterns. In reality, Scripture and research affirm that we can redirect our thoughts. Your life moves in the direction of your strongest thoughts. Left unchecked, consistent thoughts become actions, actions become habits, and habits shape our character. That’s why Paul calls us to “take every thought captive… to make it obedient to Christ.” Taking thoughts captive isn’t passive. It requires consistent, intentional direction and a steady diet of truth. A devotional on spiritual input uses the “garbage in, garbage out” concept from computer science to illustrate this. If we allow garbage to fill our hearts and minds, we reap anger, envy, and other destructive behaviors. But if we let God dwell in our hearts, follow His word, seek His help in prayer, and surround ourselves with Christ‑like people, our attitudes begin to display the fruit of the Spirit. Paul echoes this when he urges us to think about whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, and praiseworthy. Practically, that means feeding your mind with Scripture, prayer, and worship. Colossians 3:2, Philippians 4:8, and Romans 12:2 remind us to set our minds on things above and be transformed by renewing our minds. When we dwell on God’s truth—through daily reading, meditating on verses, singing worship songs—we gradually replace unhealthy thought loops with life‑giving ones. When negativity pops up, we can counter it with a verse or a prayer. Over time, the input of God’s Word and the practice of prayer and worship reshape our thought patterns. Our lives truly will move in the direction of our strongest thoughts—so let’s anchor those thoughts in God’s goodness. Verses to remember: Romans 8:5‑6, 2 Corinthians 10:5, Philippians 4:8, Psalm 103:1‑5. Myth 6 – “Trauma means you’re broken beyond repair.” Truth: Trauma leaves scars, but it doesn’t define you—God does. Genesis teaches that humanity was created in God’s image and likeness. That identity isn’t erased by abuse, betrayal, or bad choices. **You are not defined by your past, your heredity, or your environment; you are a beloved child of God**. Jesus even reframed a man’s lifelong blindness as an opportunity “that the works of God might be displayed” (John 9:3). God doesn’t just call you—He qualifies you. One article notes that God “rarely calls the qualified but qualifies the called,” promising to equip us with everything needed to do His will. Our mistakes, failures, and traumas don’t disqualify us from His service; they often become the very places where God reveals His grace. The gospel offers sustaining hope and healing, teaching that our identity is **not in our past but in Christ who has redeemed us**. The Bible acknowledges trauma yet refuses to let it define us. Redemption also means God forgives completely. In several New Testament passages, the Greek verb *aphiēmi* (“forgive”) is in the perfect tense, indicating a past action with ongoing results. When Jesus says your sins are forgiven, it isn’t just for the past—it’s a once‑for‑all act that covers past, present, and future sins. Our failures no longer define us because God has decisively removed them. Finally, trauma can be a place of divine purpose. Paul wrote that intense affliction taught him “to rely not on ourselves but on God” and that his suffering produced “an eternal weight of glory”. The same article reminds us that our trauma doesn’t save us; Jesus does. God doesn’t cause abuse or tragedy, but He can redeem our wounds by using what we’ve learned to comfort others (2 Corinthians 1:3‑4). Your scars can become a source of compassion and testimony that furthers His kingdom. Trauma is real, but it isn’t your identity. God assigns your worth at creation, seals it through redemption, and continues to forgive and heal. Your story—even its painful chapters—can be part of a larger story of grace. Verses to remember: 2 Corinthians 1:3‑4, Romans 8:28, Isaiah 61:1‑3, Psalm 147:3. Myth 7 – “Burnout means failure—you just need to try harder.” Truth: Burnout is a warning light, not a badge of shame. It’s easy to think we’re failing when exhaustion hits. Experts emphasise that burnout is not a personal weakness but a reaction to chronic, unresolved stress . Psychologist Britt Slief puts it plainly: “Burnout is not a sign of weakness, but a warning signal from both body and mind that fundamental change is needed”. Treating burnout as laziness ignores the alarm our bodies are sounding. From my perspective, burnout rarely stems from having “too many things on our plate.” It occurs when we don’t complete enough tasks and don’t leave margin for rest. Unfinished work keeps our minds spinning, and a schedule packed too tightly wears us down. Research‑backed advice mirrors this: establishing routines, prioritising tasks, and breaking them into smaller steps can reduce overwhelm and increase satisfaction as you progress. Regular breaks and self‑care—sleep, exercise, mindfulness, joyful activities—replenish mental energy. Rest looks different for each person. For some, it’s a long run or a workout; for others, it’s reading a novel, spending time with family, gardening, or even playing video games. Whatever replenishes your mind and soul can be an act of worship and self‑care. Intentionally finish what’s necessary, say “no” to what isn’t, and carve out margin for true rest. Then burnout becomes what it was meant to be—a warning light leading you toward healthier rhythms rather than an indictment of your strength. Verses to remember: 1 Kings 19:3‑12, Matthew 11:28‑30, Psalm 127:2, Mark 6:31. Summary Mental‑health challenges are rising, but they’re not a failure of faith. As a church, we must resist both romanticizing mental illness and dismissing it. We honor God when we embrace spiritual practices and the common graces of counseling, medicine, healthy habits, good sleep, and supportive community. Christ calls us to walk in truth, compassion, and hope—bringing our whole selves, including our minds, before Him. With Love, Josh Tufte References ↴ 1. churchandmentalhealth.com 2. vox.com 3. gotquestions.org 4. leeanngtaylor.com 5. proverbs31.org 6. stanthony.org 7. wohbm.org 8. humbleddaily.com 9. thebiblespeakstoyou.com 10. biblicalcounseling.com 11. greekwordstudies.blogspot.com 12. kidscentralinc.org 13. speexx.com 14. openup.com

If you’re searching for a Christian church in Kernersville, NC, or googling “church near me” hoping for something real, something refreshing, something life-giving, Passion Church might be exactly what you’ve been praying for. Over the past several weeks, we’ve been walking through a powerful teaching series called Pre-Decide: Better Choices, Better Life. And if there’s one thing we’ve learned, it’s this: "The quality of your decisions will, by and large, determine the quality of your life." This isn’t just self-help—it’s biblical truth. And at Passion Church Kernersville NC, we’re learning how to make better decisions not based on our emotions, pressure, or past failures—but on God’s purpose and truth. What Is "Pre-Decide" About? We’ve all made decisions we regret. And most of the time, it’s not because we’re bad people—it’s because we weren’t ready when the moment came. We reacted instead of responding. But what if you could pre-decide your values, your boundaries, and your direction before life put you on the spot? That’s the heart of this series. “When faced with ______, I have pre-decided to ______.” This simple declaration has helped so many people in our church build new rhythms of spiritual strength and personal integrity. It’s helped people overcome temptation, step into generosity, grow in consistency, and draw closer to Jesus. Why Pre-Decide? Because life is too important to drift. Because the world is full of distractions and options that look appealing in the moment but lead to regret in the end. And because you don’t rise to the level of your intentions, you fall to the level of your decisions. Here are just a few core truths we’ve explored together: 1. When your values are clear, your decisions are easier. If you don’t define your direction, the world will define it for you. At Passion Church, we’re learning to live by God’s values, not culture’s suggestions. 2. You don’t win in the moment—you win before the moment. Whether it’s temptation, conflict, or spiritual habits—deciding beforehand how you’ll respond makes all the difference. This is how Daniel in the Bible stayed faithful under pressure (Daniel 1:8, Daniel 6:10). 3. You are not your emotions—you are who God says you are. We live in a world that teaches us to follow our feelings. But Scripture teaches us to follow Jesus. Pre-deciding based on God’s identity and purpose for your life sets you free from emotional whiplash and spiritual stagnation. 6 Decisions That Can Change Your Life Each week at Passion Church, we’ve made bold declarations that reframe how we live: I am ready. (I will be prepared when temptation comes.) I am consistent. (I will do what honors God again and again.) I am devoted. (I will seek God first.) I am generous. (I don’t wait to give—I plan to give.) I am faithful. (I will multiply what God has entrusted to me.) I am a finisher. (I don’t quit when it’s hard.) And in our new Week 6 addition, we’re declaring: I choose joy. (No matter what, I will rejoice in the Lord. – Philippians 4:4–9) This Isn’t Just About Self-Discipline—It’s About Spiritual Transformation Pre-deciding isn't about willpower. It’s about identity. You are who God says you are. You are loved. You are chosen. You are called. And when you anchor your decisions to the truth of who He is and who He’s made you to be, your life changes from the inside out. This series has been a game-changer for our church family—and we believe it could be a game-changer for you too. A Church Near You That Feels Like Home If you're looking for a church near me that teaches the Bible, loves people deeply, and challenges you to grow in your faith, Passion Church Kernersville NC is here for you. We’re not interested in playing church—we’re here to be the Church: bold, joyful, real, and passionate. Here’s what to expect when you visit: Biblically-based messages that make sense in everyday life Powerful worship that helps you connect with God Incredible kids & youth ministries A culture of authenticity, growth, and community Real Stories, Real Growth “Been a part of this amazing journey from the beginning when we were at the picnic tables at Triad Park to current location. This is my church family, not all know me, but they treat you like family. The members say hello, smile at you, make you welcomed. I have been pulled closer to God, I personally have been dealing with a lot and these extraordinary people I call my family have helped me with their kind words, their hugs, just listening, and it makes a difference, it pulls you to the light when you feel your in the dark place. I hope you come and see why the Passion Church is a welcoming church that does not judge and makes you feel at home and brings you closer to God.” – Lindsay S. “Passion Church - the name says it all. Starting with Pastor Josh, the authentic, passionate attitude can be seen and experienced through the entire worship team, the members, the partners, and the volunteers who make this church a great place to worship. God is at the center of our worship, and many dedicated and generous individuals put forth a great effort to help point others to a genuine relationship with Jesus. Believing, trusting, and obeying God, being generous, and helping others in need - that is what it's all about - and that is what you will find at Passion Church.” – Ed P. “From the moment you get out of your car, someone is there to welcome you before you enter the building. I dare say that if you are not greeted by at least 10 people on the way to your seat, you had to try to avoid them. This is the most welcoming church that I have ever seen. Not only that, the people are authentic and not just putting on a show. The workship is raw and real. The messages are shared with love and a genuine heart full of compassion for Jesus and people. I am proud to call Passion Church my church home.” – Paul B. Join Us This Sunday 📍 Location: Passion Church, Kernersville, NC 🕘 Service Times: 9:30 am & 11:00 am 👶 Kids Church: Passion Kids for birth–5th grade 🌐 Website: www.passionchurchnc.com Your Next Right Step You don’t have to drift through life. You don’t have to be a victim of your past or your feelings. You can pre-decide to become the person God created you to be. So if you’re searching for a Christian church in Kernersville NC or a church near me where real people are experiencing real change through Jesus—come visit Passion Church. We’d love to meet you. Better yet, we’d love to walk alongside you as you pre-decide to follow Jesus in every part of your life.

Made New: The Power and Purpose of Baptism There’s a moment in every believer’s journey that marks more than just a personal decision—it marks a divine transformation. Baptism is that moment. It’s more than a ritual. It’s more than a tradition. Baptism is a command from Jesus, a celebration of new life, and a powerful expression of the salvation we’ve received. If you've ever wondered why baptism matters, let’s explore its incredible significance together. A Commanded Step of Obedience Jesus didn’t leave baptism as an optional expression of faith. In fact, one of His final commands to the disciples was this: “Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit...” — Matthew 28:19 Baptism is not just a symbol—it’s a sacred step of obedience. It’s how we publicly say, “I belong to Jesus.” When we go under the water, we identify with Jesus’ death. When we rise out of the water, we proclaim His resurrection power alive in us. The Moment of Washing and Receiving Scripture takes it even further. Baptism isn’t just a public sign—it’s also where something supernatural takes place. In Acts 2:38, Peter declares: “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.” What a breathtaking promise! Baptism is the biblical moment where the stain of sin is washed away—not because of the water, but because of the work of Jesus. It’s the moment we receive the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit, empowering us to live a new life, full of purpose and passion for God. A Line in the Sand — A Flag in the Ground Baptism is not just for the brand-new believer—it’s also a powerful point of rededication for those who have drifted and are ready to return to Jesus with their whole heart. Sometimes we need a moment to say: “This is it. No more compromise. No more wandering. I’m all in again.” Baptism can be your defining moment. It’s the spiritual act of planting your flag and declaring, “From this point forward, I am living for Christ—unashamed, unafraid, and unshakable.” Whether you’ve walked with Jesus for years or just come back after a hard season, baptism can serve as your holy reset. A declaration to your family, your church, the enemy, and even to your own soul that you are His. Not Just a Step—A Statement Baptism is a line in the sand. It boldly proclaims: “I’ve been raised to life. My past is gone. My future is in Jesus.” It’s the wedding ring of our relationship with Christ—an outward expression of an inward commitment. It tells the world, “I’m not who I used to be. I’m brand new in Christ.” Why Wait? If you’ve accepted Jesus but haven’t taken this step, know this: Baptism is not about being perfect. It’s about being obedient. It’s not the finish line of faith—it’s the starting line of a Spirit-filled life. Whether you're being baptized for the first time or coming back to rededicate your life to Christ, this moment can be your defining spiritual milestone. Don’t let hesitation rob you of what God wants to do in you—and through you—right now. You’re Invited If you’re ready to be baptized—or even if you just want to learn more—we’re here for you. At Passion Church, we believe baptism is a party in heaven and on earth. Every time someone takes that step, we rejoice like crazy… because we know the power of what’s happening. Let this be your moment. Be made new. Be washed. Be filled. Be baptized.The body content of your post goes here. To edit this text, click on it and delete this default text and start typing your own or paste your own from a different source.

I will never forget an encounter that changed my life. For this blog, we’re going to say it was a day I was talking with Tammy. Tammy was a teen I had been working with at my gym, training her in self-defense and fitness. She was precious—tender-hearted, kind, smart, and full of promise. All the reasons her dad wanted her to be equipped to protect herself in today’s world. Over the years, we built a strong friendship. She was like a little cousin to me. But one day, she came in visibly upset. We went through the workout as usual, but something was off. Jokes fell flat, silent tears were shed, and her whole demeanor had shifted. At the end, I gently asked if something was wrong. It was like a dam broke. Tammy opened up and shared something deeply personal—she was struggling with homosexual thoughts and urges. Wanting guidance, she had confided in her pastor. But instead of compassion, she was met with condemnation. She described nearly two hours of being berated, judged, and warned she would burn in hell if she didn’t repent. He told her she could no longer serve at the church if this was the path she’d chosen. But here’s the thing—she hadn’t chosen anything. She was experiencing confusing emotions and looking for help. She loved the church. She loved her friends there. She loved Jesus. She came seeking understanding and got rejection. That was the last time she set foot in that church. I sat there, heartbroken and angry. Tammy wasn’t rebellious—she was wounded. She needed grace, not a spiritual beatdown. And there I was, a Bible-believing Christian and conservative church pastor, holding the tension of truth and compassion in my hands. I believed in the biblical view of sex and marriage. But what about grace? What about loving her through a confusing season, mentoring her with wisdom, helping her process powerful emotions—not by affirming them as right, but by acknowledging them as real and pointing her toward Jesus? That day, something changed in me. I knew that something had to shift. And it needed to start here—with a new way of thinking. One rooted in Jesus. One that starts with grace and leads to truth. Why Grace Comes First Jesus modeled this for us. Whether it was the woman caught in adultery, Zacchaeus the tax collector, or Peter after his denial, He led with compassion before correction. He didn’t ignore sin—but He didn’t start there. He met people with grace first. Because grace softens hearts. It disarms fear. It invites relationship. That’s what we want people to experience at Passion Church. Whether it’s their first Sunday or their first time back in years, we want them to know: there is grace for you here. Grace Isn’t the End Goal But grace isn’t the destination—it’s the invitation. Because grace without truth may comfort us for a moment, but it will never transform us for eternity. Truth without grace leads to Hell—but grace without truth doesn’t exist. That might sound bold, but it’s biblical. If we base our salvation on truth alone—just law, just right and wrong—then we fail every time. Romans says, “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” If truth were the only measure, then by truth alone, we are all heading toward separation from God. But grace steps in. Grace makes a way. Yet grace that ignores truth isn't love. You cannot love someone and withhold the truth from them. That’s not compassion—it’s cruelty dressed in kindness. It’s like this: imagine I tell my daughter not to touch the electrical outlet. I warn her over and over. I even smack her hand away when she reaches for it because I love her and want to protect her. But then I walk away, and she touches it. She gets hurt. When I come back, I don’t shame her—I comfort her. I care for her, tend to her wounds, and get her the help she needs. But imagine if, at the end of that moment, I said, “Honey, if the light socket makes you feel good, go ahead and touch it again.” That wouldn’t be love—that would be abandonment. Love protects those it loves. Love accepts the mistake, but it doesn’t affirm it. That’s the heart of Jesus. Grace wraps its arms around you in your pain, but truth gently guides you toward freedom. We need both. Leading to Truth Truth isn’t a weapon—it’s a key. It unlocks the door to freedom. Jesus said, “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free” (John 8:32). We don’t use truth to shame—we use it to shepherd. At Passion Church, we believe you don’t have to sacrifice love to speak the truth, and you don’t have to water down truth to be loving. We walk with people through real struggles—just like Tammy—and we don’t abandon them to those struggles, nor do we affirm the lie that they are defined by them. We mentor, we guide, and we let the Holy Spirit do the heart work that only He can do. This is what real discipleship looks like: walking together, in grace, toward truth. What This Looks Like at Passion Church It looks like real stories—of redemption, healing, and restoration. It’s the single mom who finds community before anyone asks about her past. It’s the teenager wrestling with identity who finds love before receiving direction. It’s the addict who walks into a service hungover and walks out full of hope. From our welcome team to our worship, from the sermon to the follow-up, every part of our church culture is built to reflect this value: we start with grace, and we lead to truth. Why This Matters The world is confused about love and truth. Some churches speak truth so loudly they forget to love. Others love so broadly they forget to speak truth. But we believe the Gospel is better than that. Jesus meets us where we are, but He never leaves us there. And as His church, we’re called to do the same. At Passion Church, our mission is to help people become fully alive in Jesus. That starts with grace. But it never ends there. Final Invitation Maybe you’ve felt the sting of truth without grace. Maybe you’ve been handed grace without direction. Maybe you’re like Tammy—longing for a church that sees the struggle, speaks the truth, and never lets go of your hand in the process. If that’s you, know this: you are welcome here. There is grace for you. And there is truth that will change everything. Let’s walk that journey together.