February 10, 2026
Grace and Truth... Which one actually matters more?
Joshua Tufte
What if this is the question we should be asking?
Grace and Truth… which one actually matters more?
I think this question might be at the root of a lot of the tension and disunity we’re seeing among Christians right now—especially in how we respond to the culture around us. And I think some of it comes down to misunderstanding how grace and truth are supposed to work together.
Hear me out.
All throughout Scripture, we see two big themes in how God interacts with people: grace and truth.
Even in the garden, this shows up. It was pure grace that God created us in His image and wanted a relationship with us. But there was also truth—His law. And when that law was broken, separation followed. Grace and truth, together.
When Jesus shows up, He doesn’t throw out the law. He fulfills it. He teaches Scripture with wisdom that leaves people stunned. And yet… He eats with sinners. He walks patiently with imperfect disciples. He washes the feet of the man who would betray Him. That tension is everywhere. Grace and truth.
Fast forward to today, and it feels like we keep picking one side or the other.
Some people go all in on truth. Call everything out. Shout it down. Cancel it. If culture violates God’s design, it needs to be exposed loudly and publicly. Truth matters, period.
Others swing the opposite way. “Just love people.” “Don’t worry about sin.” “Jesus forgives, so none of this really matters.” Grace becomes the whole message.
The problem is… both of those miss something important.
Truth by itself doesn’t save people who don’t believe. Scripture even warns us about this. Jesus talks about not throwing pearls before pigs—not as an insult, but as a way of saying you can’t expect people who don’t share your worldview to value Scripture the way you do. Why are we surprised when sinners act like sinners?
Truth is mainly for the family of God. We hold Christians accountable to live like Christians. When we try to force biblical standards on people who don’t believe, it usually just pushes them further away.
But grace without truth isn’t love either.
Jesus didn’t come with one or the other. He came full of both.
As Craig Groeschel puts it:
“Truth without grace leads to hell. Grace without truth doesn’t exist.”
If we judge anyone—including ourselves—by the law alone, we’re all done. Romans makes that pretty clear. None of us measure up. Not one.
At the same time, agreeing with everything someone does just to keep the peace isn’t loving. If my one-year-old reaches for a hot stove, I don’t say, “Go for it, that’s your truth.” I stop her and tell her the truth—because I love her.
So maybe the better question is: what if we started with grace?
What if we led with love, patience, and relationship—and then spoke truth inside that relationship? Not as a weapon, but because we actually care. And if someone still chooses a path we believe is harmful, we don’t abandon them. We keep loving them.
Because grace saves.
Our fight isn’t against people. Scripture says it’s against unseen forces. And yet we often end up hating the very people we’re called to reach—over politics, music, or a halftime show no one will remember in a year.
Is that really worth losing the chance to share the gospel?
Nothing is worth souls.
Jesus told us to go and make disciples, not win arguments. The people who vote differently, live differently, love differently, or believe differently are still God’s children. Yes, truth matters—but grace has to lead.
Grace and truth.
Not one.
Both.
So what does this look like in real life?
It looks like this: we keep loving them.
We keep praying for them.
We keep showing up.
We keep building the relationship.
And we keep gently, faithfully leading them toward Christ—slowly, lovingly, with grace and truth working together.
Jesus was perfect—the most right person to ever walk the earth. And yet sinners didn’t run from Him. They flocked to Him.
Why?
Because He embodied the perfect balance of grace and truth. He didn’t water down truth, and He didn’t weaponize it either. He showed us the mark to aim for.
Living that way is hard. It will draw fire from both sides. You’ll be “too soft” for some and “too rigid” for others. But it’s worth it.
I’ve had the privilege of walking with people who came from very dark places and watching them find salvation in Jesus Christ—seeing lives saved, changed, healed, and restored. There is nothing like it.
And that only happens when we love people long enough, patiently enough, and faithfully enough to walk with them toward truth instead of trying to shout them into it.
So I’d genuinely love to hear your thoughts.
Where do we draw lines?
How do we actually live this out day to day?
Do you even agree with this?
Please be kind to one another. We’re here to talk, learn, and sharpen—not fight.
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If you’re searching for: • A church near me in Kernersville • A friendly, fast-growing non-denominational church • A place where your family can belong and grow • A church that teaches the Bible clearly and passionately We invite you to visit Passion Church in Kernersville. Want To Know More About Passion Church? Passion Church exists to help people: • Know God • Find freedom • Discover purpose • Make a difference In just a short time, Passion Church has grown from 87 people to over 200 weekly attenders, celebrated baptisms, and seen lives transformed by Jesus — and we believe God is just getting started. Service Times 🕘 Sundays at 9:00 AM & 11:00 AM Location 📍 Kernersville, North Carolina Contact Information 🌐 Website: www.passionchurchnc.com 📧 Email: info@passionchurchnc.com Whether you’re new to faith, returning after time away, or simply searching for a church that feels like home, there’s a place for you at Passion Church. The Bottom Line The Triad doesn’t have too many churches. It has: • Too many people still searching • Too many families needing hope • Too many hearts waiting to be reached And that’s precisely why every church matters. Together — small, medium, and large — churches across Kernersville and the Piedmont Triad are working toward the same goal: 👉 Introducing people to Jesus and walking with them as their lives are transformed.